Dating a woman who overthinks things is is hard, but totally worth it

April 14th, 2021

After a certain age, most of us have been through enough trial and tribulations in dating and we just want our relationships to be simple. We don’t want the drama and the game-playing, and we just want to be with someone who helps us feel secure and happy.

But what if I told you that that dream woman who will bring you happiness and comfort, also a little complicated?

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I know, it sounds counterintuitive. But, while dating a difficult woman could be just difficult, there’s actually a lot of reasons why a woman who constantly overthinks and questions everything, might also end up being the woman of your dreams. Read on to find out why.

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They will listen and love you unconditionally.

Women who overanalyze things often did not have the easiest life. Given that divorce is rising, particularly among middle-aged people, this woman has likely already loved and lost. A likely result of their trials and tribulations means that by the time you meet them, they have their priorities figured out. They understand that love is one of the few things that matter in life, and will protect your special bond always.

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Because these women are so in tune with their thoughts, they also want to hear yours! These women love to communicate, and since half of communication is listening, they will definitely have an open ear to your thoughts and problems as well.

They are passionate and deep.

The intensity of a woman with an overactive brain may seem intimidating at first. But, because this woman feels such strong emotions, she has a true lust for life. She will inspire your relationship to be its most creative and passionate. Whether that’s signing you up for steamy salsa dance classes or creating tasty new recipes, this woman has a flair that means you will never be bored.

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Emotionally complex women don’t just want you for the superficial benefits and comforts a relationship brings, such as being doted on. They care about the type of person you are, and what makes you tick. Because they spend so much time being caught up in their own thoughts, in love they are focused on stability and chemistry between two people.

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They’re ambitious and want the best for you.

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Woman who overthink are constantly thinking about their life’s direction, and often get caught up overthinking about yours, too. Being loved by an ambitious woman means that she will encourage you to go further in your career, think more about what you want out of life, and challenge you to think from a new perspective. This kind of love will help you grow and reward your own life.

Tips to succeed in your relationship with an overanalyzing woman.

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  • Try to show your love in simple, down to earth ways. Women who overthink don’t want a grand gesture of love, they want consistency and simplicity.
  • Because they are so such good listeners, if you want to avoid conflict you should focus on expressing yourself clearly and fairly.
  • Be someone worthy of her respect. Women like this really just want the simple things in life, they want to be able to trust you and be happy in the small moments.
  • Communicate your needs and goals for the relationship clearly and outright. That way, she knows exactly what you are looking for, and you can work together to grow your perfect love story.
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So, don’t be deterred by a complex woman who seems stuck in her own head! She could end up showing you a strong, warm, and exciting love.

To learn more about women who overanalyze, check out this article.

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Source: Pew Research Center